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1. Be realistic about each other. 
Don’t try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let’s face
it, guys-there’s only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has
had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical
appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials
! or treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u’re
gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for
what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye. 

2. Always talk things out. 
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues,
but u know what? This works with the gals. Don’t make assumptions about
each other’s feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner
undrstands what u’re angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When
u stop talking to each other from the heart, it’s the beginning of the
end. 

3. Do stuff together. 
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves
in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested
in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling
hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though
the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in
if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest
that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities"
instead. If u’re spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur
partner, it’s a warning sign that u’re drifting apart!!! 

4. Meet each other halfway. 
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock"
print, u shouldn’t kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room
tidy. There’s gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so
learn to meet each other halfway. 

5.Show ur love 
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been
together for 5years. It’s wonderful to continue showing someone that u
care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine’s Day
card. Knit him mini-socks he can’t wear ( like for decoration purposes
=> ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for
him…so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been
together for quite a while. 

6. Respect each other. 
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh
at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority
complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse!
Love is about respecting each other’s feelings and being sensitive to each
other at all times. 

7. Bury the past. 
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don’t bring up the happy things about
u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys,
don’t talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about
her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and
she might think that u saying all this b’cos u are gonna get back with
ur ex or not interested in her anymore.<
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8. Sit on u r jealousy. 
All of us go thru’ spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship,
but don’t translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u’re gonna go through
ur partner’s mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know
something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads
thru’ the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love
has to have trust in it. 

9. Keep ur commitments to each other. 
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking
promises, u need to talk! If u’re in a relationship, make ur partner ur
priority and don’t disappoint them if u can help it. It’s really terrible
when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it.
Don’t make promises u can’t keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she
is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her. 

10. Be honest. 
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning,
or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest",
we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When
u’re hurt, say so, and when u’re angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical.
If u can’t be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? f Love
is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probabl!
y isn’t worth it!